Scammers target widows and divorced women using public data sources

International Women’s Day celebrates empowerment, independence and resilience. However, people rarely talk about a difficult reality. Women going through major life transitions, especially widows and divorcees, have become prime targets for sophisticates Financial frauds. In fact, scammers often look for people who are going through emotional or financial changes. This is exactly what happened to a woman interviewed by ICE after she lost her husband and turned to online dating.

“Someone suggested going online through a dating service… and pictures of this guy came up. He wasn’t George Clooney, he wasn’t anything great, but he looked like my husband.”

Stories like this highlight an uncomfortable truth. Romance scams don’t work because the victims are negligent. Instead, scammers carefully identify potential targets and craft messages that sound personal and believable. Increasingly, this targeting starts with data.

Scammers often slowly build trust through online conversations before offering fake investment opportunities. (Istock)

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Life transitions create digital signals

When someone loses a spouse or goes through a divorce, some information often becomes public or commercially available:

• Obituary List of surviving spouses, family members and cities.
• Property records Reflect ownership changes.
• Court files May indicate marital status updates.
• Processing changes and family formation Transitions are recorded in databases.

Data brokers Collect and package this information. They build profiles that may include:

• age
• Property ownership
• Estimated income or home value
• Family composition
• Social status indicators

While this data is often marketed for advertising purposes, it can also be misused. Scammers do not randomly search for victims. They build targeting lists. “Recently widowed” and “recently single homeowner” are categories that can be inferred from publicly available and commercially collected data.

How obituary scraping leads to fuel targeting

Obituaries are intended to honor loved ones. But they can also inadvertently reveal personal details:

• Full names
• The husband is alive
• Children and other relatives
• City of residence
• Sometimes even maiden names.

Scammers collect obituary locations and cross-reference them with people search databases. Within days, they can identify surviving spouses, locate their addresses and find their phone numbers. This is often the starting point for:

• forged Investment playgrounds
• Impersonation scams
• Romance is approaching
• Fraudulent communication with a “financial advisor.”

Scammer advantage? They already know what just happened in your life. This makes their message seem personal and believable.

Romantic investment hybrids are exploding

One of the fastest growing threats today is the so-called “pig slaughter” scam – a long-term romance-turned-investment scheme.

Public records and data broker profiles can reveal life changes such as widowhood or divorce, helping criminals identify potential targets. (Felix Zhan/Phototec via Getty Images)

Here’s how it works:

• The scammer initiates contact via social media or messaging apps.
• They build trust over weeks or months.
• They offer a “lucrative investment opportunity.”
• The victim transfers the money to what appears to be a legitimate platform.
• Money disappears.

Widowed and divorced women are disproportionately targeted because scammers assume:

• There may be life insurance proceeds or retirement savings available.
• The individual is managing finances independently for the first time.
• Emotional vulnerability may make building relationships easier.

These scams can cost victims hundreds of thousands of dollars. Targeting often starts with Data broker profiles.

Fake financial advisors and retirement predators

Another growing tactic involves scammers pretending to be:

They may point out subtle details such as:

• The value of your home
• Your approximate age
• Your city or neighborhood
• Your marital status.

Because the information is correct, the communication appears legitimate. Some even create fake websites, fake LinkedIn profiles and credentials to boost credibility. Women who manage retirement assets on their own, especially after the death of a husband, are often offered “exclusive” investment opportunities or urgent financial warnings. These scammers rely on one thing: access to detailed personal information.

Why exposure to data increases risk

The more publicly accessible your information is, the easier it is for scammers to craft compelling stories.

Data broker profiles can include:

• Home addresses
• Phone numbers
• Names of relatives
• Property ownership history
• Estimated income bracket.

When scammers combine this with obituaries or court files, they can infer life changes. They don’t need illegal hacking. They just need searchable data. Reducing this exposure greatly reduces the likelihood of becoming a target.

How to reduce your risks

International Women’s Day is about empowerment, and financial independence is an important part of that. Protecting yourself means:

• Be careful with unsolicited investment offers
• Independently verify credentials
• Never transfer money based solely on online relationships
• Limit how easy it is to find your personal information.

One of the most effective proactive steps is to remove your personal data from people search sites and other data brokers.

There are hundreds of these sites, each with their own opt-out process, and many of which re-list your data later. However, reducing the amount of your personal information visible online may make it more difficult for scammers to create convincing profiles about you.

Why January is the best time to remove personal data online

Start by searching your name on major people search websites and reviewing what information appears publicly. If you find personal details listed, most sites provide instructions for requesting removal.

While no service can guarantee complete removal of your data from the Internet, a data removal service is truly a smart choice. It’s not cheap, and neither is your privacy. These services do all the work for you by systematically monitoring and scraping your personal information from hundreds of websites. This gives me peace of mind and has proven to be the most effective way to clear your personal data from the Internet.

By limiting the information available, you reduce the risk of fraudsters cross-referencing data from breaches to information they might find on the dark web, making it harder for them to target you.

Limiting how easy it is to find your personal information online can reduce the chances of scammers targeting you. (Ochar/Getty Images)

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Key takeaways for Kurt

International Women’s Day celebrates strength, independence and resilience. However, empowerment also means understanding how scammers operate in the real world. Criminals do not rely on luck; instead, they rely on data. Death records, property records, and data broker profiles can quietly reveal life changes that make a person appear financially stable but emotionally vulnerable. Fortunately, awareness can change the equation. For example, you can independently vet financial advisors, inquire about unsolicited investment offers and limit how easily people can find your personal information online. As a result, these steps can significantly reduce your risk. Ultimately, protecting your financial future is part of protecting your independence. This goal lies at the heart of International Women’s Day.

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